Who Are They To Say?
They tell you that if you are gonna be successful as a musician in this digital age you have to do it all. You need to be everywhere. You must maintain every profile on every social network, play live, promote yourself, and when you find some free time write and record hit songs. You have to do this without ever making a dime until something or someone comes along and decides to help. Or Apple decides to use one of your songs in a commercial(btw they won’t pay you either). It’s not the same old music business anymore. It’s not even the same one it was yesterday. Everything has changed. And so have I. And for that reason I am resurrecting this blog and changing the direction of it. At least for now. This blog was, if I do say so myself, pointless. It’s just another avenue for me to promote myself and my music. It’s a way for you the reader or listener to delve deeper into who I am. But now I want to do something different here. I want to tell you what it’s really like being an independent musician. And it’s not for you to feel sorry for us musicians. Or for me to have a place to vent(though I am sure I will). So why am I doing this? To get the truth out. I try my best to tell my truth when I am writing music and I want to do the same here. My goal is for what is to follow is to give some insight to music lovers and some direction for those thinking of becoming professional musicians. Take from it what you like.
A little history lesson:
Runaway Dorothy has been a thing now for about 6 years. At least the name has. I am the only remaining original member of a side project that started in a small apartment in downtown Charleston, SC. At the time I had just quit a fairly successful band that was somewhat known. I would later learn that I was gonna be fired at any moment. No one bothered to tell me until a few years later. And then my best friend and guitarist let me in on the secret. He was the one who was supposed to fire me. But I am not bitter. Really, I am not. Being in that band for the short amount of time I was in it was the best learning experience ever. I learned how a successful band should operate. But more importantly I got to see where they fell short. It wasn’t music or talent. They had that in spades with a great looking singer with an incredible voice who could write catchy songs in his sleep( I actually think he did). So what was it? More on that another time. So RD was born in January of 2006. I know this because that is when I first started the myspace page. I think at the time I had written only one song I was proud of. It was a song called ‘Matter of Time’ and it was about my mom and dad. It made the first album though I lost more than half of the lyrics when I moved out of my apt in Charleston. I apologize now to anyone who is reading for the sporadic thoughts and horrid grammar and punctuation. It won’t get any better from here on out. I just write. I let someone else edit. Now where was I? Oh, yes. I have one song, a myspace page and a name. I am a full-fledged musician in the digital age.
A Little More…
Fast forward a few years and our debut album ‘The Arc’ is out. The small group of people who found it love it. The reviews have been great. AND famous and successful musicians have been singing it’s praises. Great! Right? Well yes, but that doesn’t mean much when you can’t pay the rent. Well you could say ‘Go get a job you lazy bum’. I have one. I teach guitar lessons and do other side jobs now. In the past I have worked for a non-profit, I have worked in a coffee shop, I even worked for a clothing boutique all while being a musician and playing shows. Though I have had many jobs(too many to name or even remember) this is the first time I have ever let on about this. I never mention it in interviews or online or on any of our social media sites. I couldn’t destroy your image of a successful musician. What would you think? You want your musicians to be cool, carefree, and only working on music. You don’t want to know Chris Martin is working at Starbucks when he isn’t on tour. Or that after Beyonce gets off stage she has to get home because she has to get to her Temp job in the morning. Am I wrong? If so let me know because this is what the industry has been telling us to keep from you for years.**Side note(this will happen from time to time. You will learn that my mind works like a JD Salinger novel. It’s all over the place.) Musicians can’t have normal jobs if we want to be successful musicians. We can’t work a 40 hour traditional work week. Why? We HAVE to play shows. No one is buying the record. They are illegally downloading it. So in order to make some money and to broaden our audience we have to play shows. And you have to play shows on week days. IF you are a successful act the venues give you the weekends. And let’s be honest you aren’t gonna make much on a Monday night. Thus we have to work weird jobs that allow us to have more flexible schedules. Downside to this is they usually pay less and are a less steady income. But you have to do it. Otherwise you work your M-F job and not tour. And as far as I know it’s impossible to work a 9-5 at Citibank and be on tour at the same time. If someone knows different please let me know. The upside is we want to play shows. Or at least I do. And you as fans want to know we are coming to a city near you soon. I get emails all the time asking when are we coming to Detroit, or Chicago, or even small town Georgia. We want to go. Believe me. We would be in our non-existent van in the morning if we could. Damn…I have done it again. Off on a tangent. Where was I? Jobs…oh yes. We all have jobs that we do our best to work around to go play shows and rehearse.
Today
It’s Grammy night 2012. We just got done with our vocal rehearsal for the week and are practicing our acceptance speeches for next years Grammys. Everyone has gone home and I am up starting this blog entry. I don’t have a home. I really haven’t had one since I moved to New York over 5 years ago. I have spent most of my time on my brother’s futon in his living room. And that is where I will sleep tonight. Why? I can’t afford my own place. Great reviews and all aside we haven’t sold enough records nor do I have enough students or side work to afford me a room. I put all my time and money into this music that I believe in. Maybe it’s stupid, but it’s the only thing that feels right. I heard a story about Q-Tip from A Tribe Called Quest that he lived with his mother on her couch even after they had a few albums out and were ‘successful’. I now fully understand what that is like. It’s hard. It’s hard to be creative and write music in this place and then stand on a stage and become the character of success and then return here every night. Sorry, I will stop bitching now. Everyone has his own story(finally some correct grammar). Most of the time it isn’t easy.
Moving Forward
So this in a nut shell is where we are. One album out. One almost done. Dates are lined up for a small tour in about a month to SXSW(we have no clue how we are gonna pay for it). The following entries will be an honest and grammatically incorrect account of what is happening with me and the band. I won’t promote this blog on Twitter or Facebook or whatever new social thing is coming out tomorrow morning. If you want to read it you will have to find it on your own(it will always be at this web address). And if you are reading it it must mean you really want to know. You want to know the highs and the lows. And that unfiltered is what I will bring you. That is until my manager makes me take all this down. I know the story so far is missing some pieces. Fear not, I will fill you in as we go, but for now I bid you goodnight or good morning wherever you are. I must shower and go to sleep. I have to get up early tomorrow and look for a new job so I can afford this tour and finish this album. Ok, ok. Honesty. I am gonna shower, I will watch one episode of ‘Downton Abbey’(I am addicted to the show) and then I will go to sleep.
Dave





